QuestionHow would I fire him my husband does not know that I know also I can not say thing because the lady who told me is a very good friend to both of us any suggestions. Thanks Brenda
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My husband and I have been married for 37 years. We work together and are self employed we own out own shop. My husband has had about 30 affairs since we have been married he say's it is for sex only. He said he would never do it again since we have moved to a new city. Will we had a argument one night and he went back to work and when he does that he never comes back home even for clothes or calls. Will he finally called after 4 days and wanted to come home. One of the close friends told me that our helper at the shop which is only 19 years old. She told me that our young work asked my husband would you be interested in going out with my mom. Before he treated the young worker very bad now he treats him real nice. I just seems like if someone was trying to break up your marriage the young worker should be gone.
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Hi Brenda~
His having affairs during the marriage is just unacceptable. You shouldn't put up with it period. You don't deserve to be cheated on.
The person that condones the cheating, and even goes as far as to set your husband up with his mother, yes, he should be fired. He shouldn't be allowed to continue to work for you, b/c by keeping this 19 yo around, you're approving his behavior.
AnswerHi Brenda~
Just tell your husband you let him go b/c of something you didn't like about him. If you have to make something up then do it, for example: like you didn't like his work ethic, etc. I'm sure you can come up with some reason. Is he ever late to work, late back from lunches or breaks, etc. I'd look for any reason to fire him. Since you are married to your husband you own half the company too, unless he had it prior to the marriage.
