QuestionHoi, I've been married for 2 months and recently found out I'm pregnant. My husband said it's too soon and i ant to keep this child. I've already had 2 abortions with him and do not want to go through a 3rd. Please help! I'm feeling so alone and depressed. Also in the process of looking for a job.
AnswerDear Emma,
Discuss it again with your husband.If he still doesn't want the baby and you do, ask him if you can at least stay with him til after it is born.
If you find a job,be truthful and tell them you are pregnant.Their insurance won't cover you but they may let you work until the due date.Put the money back so if you have to move,the cash will be there to help.
The decision to have a baby is a very big one.You may lose your husband if you keep the child.
Also,abortions are hard on your body.Too many and you lessen the chances of carrying a child to full term.
Some people simply do not want children.This does not make them bad,it is just their preference.If he is one of those and you really want children,then you need to end the marriage.Don't force him into a situation that can cause nothing buy heartache for both of you.
If you decide to stay with him,then take precautions so this doesn't happen again.
Rita
