QuestionMe and my husband have been together for almost nine years and have been married for the past 5 years. Last year we decided to have our second child. Well, i got pregnant and around my 4th month i find out that my husband was having an affair with a coworker. He decided to leave and left me and our 6 year old. The affair lasted for about 5months. After i had the baby, he then wanted to come back home and try to work things out. It has now been a year and we have just separated because i can't deal with the fact that he tore my whole world apart and its hard for me to not bring it up. How do i deal with that so that my marriage can be saved.
AnswerJessica, It's possible to forgive him, sure it is. if you think you need him then you can also have him, but before you have hi for your own peace of mind you will need to forgive him in your own mind. Once you forgive nothing will come in between. So whole logic depends on do you forgive him unconditionally on the spot for all and whatever. It makes no difference who he cheated with coworker or landlord or the person next door. he did it period and that was past, you need to forgive him unconditionally. Have positive intention and you will cherish new love form him. Visit a counselor for your moral support. Life forgive you. new cells develops every 11 months. Whole new body is new , whole skin is new,, All cells in body are new.
Don't keep -ve or hurtful memories.
have good thoughts and look forward for new happy life. Your bad days are over.
You must forgive yourself too for going through the pain you went through. Start a new life.
Visit a counselor so he can talk in details with you if you have any doubts after listening to all story of your & all incidents if you want.
Good luck
Sharma
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