Dealing with Infidelity: Should You Stay or Leave?

Question
he says he wasn't happy he said it was because he felt he was doing everything. well i work full time and he stays home and then he tells me he's seeing someone he is leaving to move 4 hours away to think what he wants i am hurting bad so do i try to get over him or do i try to wait for him to fiqure out what he wants.

Answer
Hi Vicki~

It was his choice and decision to leave and move 4 hours away.  If he's already cheating on you with another woman--you definitely shouldn't trust him.  If he'll do this to you once, chances are he'll do it again.  At this point all you can do is to take things one day at at time.  It's going to take you some time to get over this.  When a spouse cheats on you, it makes you lose every ounce of trust and respect that you once had for him.  Now, you have to decide what you want to do with your life.