Navigating the Conversation: Introducing Your Step-Son Before Marriage

Question
Hi
I have a sweet lovely lady i hope to get married to soon and every thing is moving smoothly between us. However I have son I did not tell her about before because it is only recently she started considering marriage to me. I believe it is unfair to hide this from her, however from various conversation we have had, it appears she would be deeply affected by the news.
Please advice on the best way to present it to her.

Thank you

Answer
Hi Ini~

I would sit her down as soon as you could and tell her the truth,as she has a right to know.  Just tell her that you have something to tell her,that she needs to know about you. If she loves and respect you for the person you are,then she'll understand when you tell her you have a child.  And it won't make any difference to her whether you have a child or not.  Good luck!  I hope when you break the news to her that it goes well for you.