Navigating Separation and Relationship Challenges: Seeking Support
QuestionIm only 20 years old and im married with a baby. Well me and my husband have been separated for about 2 months but up until about 2 weeks ago we were doing fine, and all of a sudden he says he hates me and I really do think he is seeing somebody else he doesnt answer my phone calls and when I try to talk to him we always argue he says he isnt with anyone else but I really dont know I want to work things out with him because I just feel as if we have to much together to just let it all go down the drain. I think I love him and jsut two weeks ago he said he loved me so how is it that all of a sudden he doesnt love me anymore.
AnswerHello Crystal,
Try talking to him again and tell him you want to work things out.Mention seeing a counselor with him.You can only do so much,it takes both of you to make it work.If he still doesn't want to work things out,then let him go and move on.I would visit with your minister or counselor either way though.They can help you work out issues that will help you keep your marriage together or move on without it.
Rita