Questionhello i am ana sofia.. i am married i have one son he is just 4 yrs old. my concern is this, actually my husband know this, my purpose is to attract men online to make money. and he knows about this, and then i actually attarcted one of men online. he is older than me 70 yrs old while i am is 25. as the time goes by he sends me already money coz i already got his attention and he became in love with me. but then as time goes by, i felt this weird feeling that i know i am in love with him also.now,i dont wanna admit this at first but it really bothers me alot.my bf online wants me to go there with him, and believed me i am willing to be with him coz i really feel i love him already. i felt now horrible specially when me and my husband had sex, i dont have any feelings for him anymore. i dont know what i am gonna do now, he has so many sisters abroad that can help him to stay away my son to me.. and that is my concerned. i know its not right to used someone's feeling just to make money, but this is different now. i am so deeply so inlove with him and i know he'll so the same thing to me. eventhough he is way too old for me, and my age was just like his grandchildren , i dont care i love him. please help me.i wanna be with my bf what ever it takes. but how about my son?
AnswerDear Ana,
What a dangerous game you have played. So dangerous that now you are considering making a self-centered decision that will negatively affect many people in your life for years to come. And what for - love? Give me a break.
My dear, I'm going to give it to you straight: What you have done and are doing is immature and stupid indeed. Grow up and learn to control yourself. You signed up for the responsibility of a 4-year-old son and he is your first priority now -- don't mess your or his life up for silly school-girl feelings that will surely diminish in short order once the fantasy of online love is gone and replaced by the reality of living with a 70-year-old man.
Wake, up, grow up, and stay away from flirting with men for money. I am praying that you do right by yourself and your family.
Doctor Becky
