QuestionHello.
I really need your help in my problem.
My husband changed on me, he doesn't have time for me anymore, we don't go out unless in weekends and we've been married for 1 month now ! He even tried to hit me and he pulled my t-shirt and that brake my heart and I still didn't forget about it. I already talked to him about what I don't like about him and gave a chance to tell what's in his heart maybe more than 10 times but nothing happen yet!!
I feel that if I'm with him or even I'm not there its the same.
I feel that I can't live my life this way, I started to lose weight and I feel that I'm tired from all this thing. I want a divorce but I don't know if it will be the right thing to do or not? Because his sister is like my best friend and I love her so much and I don't want to lose her.
How can I even convence my family that I don't want him anymore!
FYI; before we get engage I knew him from 6 years ago.
AnswerDear Noor,
Thank you for inquiry. I greatly sympathetic towards what is happening to you. I feel that these questions are appropriate for you that you must ask yourself. Did you really know him? If he abusing you now, did he really show any signs of hostility before? Another question in regards to going out? Does he work on the weekdays where he may come home tired and may want to reserve the weekends for you? Divorce is the easy solution for anybody that is starting out, but if you really want your marriage to work, go to a marriage counselor. God instituted marriage to be forever as he did when he made and joined the first couple. If you feel that your life is in danger then it is your decision to separate. I hope this was helpful and I will pray for you.
