Husband's Relapse: Navigating Addiction and Relationship Challenges

Question
I been married to my husband 4 year almost two of those year he was using methaphane got into trouble went to jail then went to 30 day program ok for couple week went back out then went to jail got out went to 9 month rehab in patient and was clean sober for 2 1/2 year and got really drunk Friday said it was over get my stuff didn't answer phone all night talk next day back together but said he enjoy it and he does want to stop is been have a beer night and kind rude side really with me yell at or 4 year old daughter it was a because his one 2 sense and blame me for his relapse and when talk he say at least him at home would you rath me go to a bar not tell you I can't stop caring afraid it be like old time I love and when he sober he a great husband and father help

Answer
Hi Michelle,
I had a hard time understanding your letter. Please use punctuation marks next time, okay?

 If you are asking me what to do about your husband who drinks, all I can tell you is that he still needs help. He needs deliverance.This is a spiritual problem and the only answer for him is spiritual. He needs to turn his life over to the Lord for His help.   

 I couldn't live with someone like this myself. It's up to you whether or not you want to put up with his behavior. Certainly if he is physically or mentally abusing you in any way, you need to be separated so that you can be safe.

 You have to make the choice if you want to tolerate this behavior, Michelle. A life living with an alcoholic is a hard road...

 In His Service,

 Pastor Kim