Husband's Online Affair: A 17-Year Marriage Tested by Deception and Neglect

Question
a year ago in oct I found out my husband met this lady on the internet and started seeing her but all the time this was going on he always denied the fact that something was going on He is a truck driver we would have been married seventeen years. I have taken him back but he never puts any effort in helping me finacially at all so then he would be home maybe a day and leaves never really trying to help our marriage just blames me says I can't leave the past alone I keep bringing up this relationship to him The reason I do is because he keeps in contact with this woman He never comes home for any length of time at all Now I learn he is involved with another lady and still says there is nothing going on I have lost all my trust in this man and he has the nerve to say to me if I want this marriage to work or not Like it is all my fault. I guess is I'm imaging things with him or should I call it quits.He gives me no money at all I have to work two jobs and he pays nothing.  

Answer
Hi Anonymous~

If he gives you absolutely no money and doesn't support you,then what good is he to you?  This is not a marriage to him,if it were he wouldn't be cheating in the first place.  He's probably just staying around b/c you put up with his crap and cheating.  It's not fair to you to stay in this marriage when he is blatantly cheating on you (even though he denies it).  You know he is,and he knows he is.  Stop wasting your time with him and move on.  He doesn't love or respect you like he should otherwise he wouldn't do this to you to begin with.  He's no good for you.  Maybe it's time you moved on.  After all you deserve to be happy,and your obviously not going to find happiness as long as you are with him.