QuestionI was married at 19 to the same person who'd controlled my life since 16; we were both very co-dependent, I've since figured out from researching,
But,I have grown out of a LOT of my problems, and he has not, he's an ok person as far as general living goes, but he doesn't relate to people, there's no depth, you don't get to really know him or feel close, but that's what I am hungry for now that I have learned to relate to people,
Is there hope for a genuinely fulfilling marriage?
I want this marriage, I think, but I also feel suffocated and frustrated most of the time we are together,
Thankyou very much, Cheryl
AnswerHi Cheryl~
I would suggest marriage counseling to you. This way a therapist can give you examples on how to deal with particular issues and situations you are going through. It's going to take some time for results of your husband to come around and begin to relate to ppl. There is hope for the marriage as long as he can agree to try and change and get help with an outside source.
