QuestionMy wife started going home to columbus, ohio with just our 2 children to visit her family. I was under going treatment for hep c and did not want to travel the 200 miles for these visits. This went on for a little over two years.
She would frequently go out with her brother and his wife and other couples, including new years eve partys.
Now that I am better, hep c in remission, I want to attend these couples outings with my wife but she refuses to let me go with her. She claims it's her and her brothers "thing" and she doesn't want me included.
I say this is odd behavior not to want your spouse along for supposed spouse outings. Am I wrong???"
AnswerHi Jeffrey~
I definitely say that you have every right to be concerned and to think that there is something wrong with her. Something that she doesn't want you to hear, see or know about. Otherwise, she wouldn't have such a problem with this and/or make a big deal about this.
You need to sit down with her and have a serious heart to heart talk with her. She needs to know exactly how this is affecting you. And what you're willing and unwilling to put up with in this marriage. She's keeping something from you that she doesn't want you to know about. If she refuses to talk to you or tell you what's going on, then perhaps you need to start reevaluating the relationship and marriage that you have together. And decide what the next step should be from here on out.
