QuestionI have found out my girlfriend of 3 years was having an affair with her coworker? After forwarding her cellphone calls *72 my number (send) to my device after one night of passitionate reconcilation. The next morning I got the phone call from her other lover. I'm not sure if she is in love with the other man? My sister saw her drive his new car a few times in my city while I was at work 2006 Lexus GS 450. I've gotten off from work early just to see where shes going, but at the last minute I change my mind to spare my feelings. Went to my house and watched ESPN instead.
I've heard of other couples bringing the outside party to the table for a mutal meeting of what caused this to happen. I've asked her how long she has been having this affair, and she doesnt want to answer my question, but now she wants to get back together after I forced myself not to call or email her. I even got desperate one night and offered her my hand in marriage. The next morning I said to myself thats not love you idiot.
If the affairs been going on for more than 1 month should I cut all ends? We don't have any kids together. I'm just thinking of the odds of it happening again. We work two entirely different work schd, and she has access to this other man's stuff driving his car and his house because a few times I saw changing clothes in the back seat of her car and perfume. When I asked her about it, she had every excuse in the book. "One day she told me, she was going for a job interview, I said yeah in filp flops and this tight shirt?"
Sometimes you can be booksmart but a romantic idiot. What should I do before I wreck my career.
AnswerDepart.
Move on.
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