Navigating Bitterness, Resentment & Anger in Marriage: A Guide

Question
HI,
I have been trying to resolve an issue that she created that has seriously affected our marriage. Her refusal to take ownership or responsibility for her actions & her refusal to apologize is causing bitterness & resentment. Her insulting me rather than do what is needed (Apolozize) is causing me to become angry & I find now I am intentionally doing little things I always enjoyed doing for her before this incident occured. Rather than apologize she will state "Get od Drugs". Being angry because I was belittled, demeaned, & shown no respect is not a Mental illness. How do I resolve this issue   ???

Billy

Answer
Hello Billy,
  I think you both need counseling.Either with your minister or a professional counselor.She won't apologize and you need an apology.Obviously there is a very serious issue here that can't be worked out between the two of you.Contacting someone that can listen to both sides and be a mediator should help.
Rita