Questionhi, I'm 27 and am very interested in sharing rest of my life with a girl who is 31 (she is 4 years older than me), personally I'm not concerned with this age difference in handling my relationship it is great, but I'm hearing things like she'll not be happy with the relation because of her aging process and menopause and etc., i really want to find out, is there really anything threatening my relationship if i marry her, can you help me on this? what is the psychological and physiological facts if there is any threatening my future life with her
thanks in advance,
Ali
AnswerHi Ali,
Have a wonderful wedding and a wonderful marriage. 4 years is nothing. There is no problem whatsoever. If you both love each other go ahead and seal the deal. Have a great life, and don't you worry about menopause or her aging process. That's still a long ways off and it is part of life whether we like it or not. Everyone telling you that her aging process is a tough thing? Did anyone also tell you that you'll be aging along with her too? Nothing wrong with aging at all.
Don't let a mere 48 MONTHS stop you both from bring happy for the next 48 YEARS.
The only thing that can threaten your marriage is the insecurity caused by people who don't know what the heck they are talking about.
Kind regards and have a great life with your lovely young wife!
Don.