Is Refusing a Lie Detector Test a Sign of Infidelity? Seeking Relationship Advice

Question
by asking my wife to take a lie detectors test about being fatful and her saying no to taking one should i take that as prove that she is cheating or am i wrong in asking her to take one .her answer as to why she wouldn't take one is because she feels that she shouldn't have to prove herself like that and my prove is little if any but she always gets so defense when this subject ciomes up.

Answer
Dear Curtis,

In addition to love in a marriage, trust is next biggest area that needs nurturing. If you have some indication, from a reliable source, that she is being unfaithful then you should be honest with her. If she denies it then you have choice- believe her, or don't. If you don't then it's in your court decide what you want to do. Do you want to continue to feel that your trust in your wife is severly questioned or are you willing to believe your marriage is strong enough that, if she is being unfaithful, that you can work through it? If the tables were turned and she were asking you if you would take a lie detector test would you be defense? It is a terrible feeling not trust your wife. You try to resolve this as soon as possible. I hope this was helpful.