Navigating Age Gap Relationships: Addressing Doubts Before Marriage

Question
I am a 40 year old man dating a 25 year old lady and we plan to get married before the end of the year.

I have found myself developing doubts and cold feet recently. I wonder if this is a sixth sense warning me or it is just a fear of commitment. I cant lay a finger on any real issue apart from the age difference, but I want to be careful since i have waited this long. Are there things i could look out for which would provide a glimpse into what the future will be like if i end up with her?

Thank you

Answer
There are real reasons why you have waited this long. It is important that you know your own life patterns as well as those of your prospect. Is she looking for a father she never had?

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