QuestionI have been married to an alcoholic/addict anger problem man for 22 years. Time is up I need to get away from him. I do not want to leave my house, but neither does he. He wants me to move to a condo and he said he will pay for it. Would that be considered seperation? Do I have to get legal papers written up to say he will pay my bills?
Oh yeah , by the way I work w/ my husband and his sister. They both own the business. My husband will not allow me to work there anymore, so I have no income now. I was making $ 24.00 an hour there.
He has talked about going to a mediator beore, what do you think of a mediator.
I am so confused right now, could use any advise.
AnswerI think you could use the advice and services of a lawyer simply because of the "supposed" agreements should be written down. Since you will not be able to work there, your lawyer will likely recommend alimony of some sort in whatever settlement you will decide on since a divorce seems iminent. I believe it is just too tricky of a situation to go alone. Also if there is just cause for a restraining order, your lawyer could help you stay in the home, especially if children are involved. Most lawyers will consult with you for free.
Bill
