Navigating Separation and Conflict in a Marriage: Seeking Solutions

Question
My wife and I just got into a big argument a couple of days ago. We can never just talk to each other . but instead argue about anything.. Right now we are separated. When we try to talk over the phone it's the same thing with her. She never gives me a chance to talk . And she constantly looking for things i done wrong to argue with me.She gives me no respect and constantly put me down. And i always have to take the verbal abuse from her all the time. I just don't know what to do or where our marriage stands right now . HELP !!

Answer
Hello Sing,
 Write her a letter and ask that she attends counseling with you.Visit with your minister or a professional counselor.Your wife is having emotional problems due to something that is going on.Possibly problems at work or even physical.
 If she won't go then leave her alone for awhile and see if she snaps out of it.The more pressure you put on her,the more she will use verbal abuse against you.
 Rita