Supporting Your Wife's Body Image: Addressing Breast Size Concerns

Question
Hello  My wife is 5ft-11in 117Lb with an ass to die for and legs that are just too good. but she has what she calls small breasts. My Exwife was a 50E or something like that? Me I just don't care one way or the other how big or how small. I think it is just so sad how some women judge themselves on breast size. Sure alot of men are to blame too. How can I make my wife understand that it really don't matter about the size of them? She will not even let me see them when we are alone.(wink-wink)I tell her it's not her breasts but what is behind them that counts. I did not fall in love with her boobs but her heart. She is a 32B I think.? And while I got you here HOW DO BRA SIZE WORK!!A,B,C,D.DD? What is the secret formula to figure that out? I was just wondering. You know  number then letter. What dose it mean?....Thank you so much for your time and help.....

Answer
Hey Gregg! I first want to apologize for taking this long to reply. :(
Your wife actually meets the national average so her breast size is not small at all! Also, you are her husband and it's sad that she can't feel comfortable sharing everything with her soul mate. After all, you wouldn't have married her if you didn't love her just the way she is! Try explaining this to her in a loving and nurturing manner.
I doubt she'll respond to that since you've tried similar tactics so if it doesn't work, I recommend telling a little white lie. That you looked up information on the Internet and found some common breast concerns and saw hers in it and that a professional said her breasts were completely
normal. She might be embarassed if you tell her you wrote me. Another way to possibly help reassure her is to set up a doctor's appointment, have her get an examination, and have the doctor let her know that she is just fine. If the problem persists, which it may also in other areas of her life, she really should get some help from a professional psychiatrist, psychologist, or therapist. This really needs to be looked into!
As far as determining breast size, the cup size (A, B, C, etc.) explains the size of your breast while the 32 or 34 or whatever is the size around your chest. Breast size is discovered through bra measurements or just trying on several bras and figuring out what fits.
I wish I could be of more help! Good luck!

                                              Megan