Questioni am 23 years old and my family push me to get married but at the moment i think i am not ready. when is the best age to get married? and what should i do for long lasting reletionship before marriageand after marriage?
AnswerHi Ahmad~
There's not a perfect age or time to get married. Only you will truly know when/if you're ready. After all you're the one that has to be married to a particular person, not your family. So it's easy for family to give their opinions on what you should do. You'll just know that feeling in your heart when the right person comes along. You'll want to be around this person all the time, you can't imagine your life w/o them, etc.
I would suggest that you start out as friends with someone, get to know them, their likes/dislikes, their personality, it helps if your both compatible before you get into a serious committed relationship. Then you can take the next step of getting married. Marriage is a constant work in progress. And you have to work at it all the time, as a team. Communication is key in any marriage, if you don't have it, then you don't have much of a marriage or even relationship. You have to be able to talk things out and work differences out when they arise (and believe me they will). But you'll know in your heart when the right person comes along, and when you're ready for a huge commitment like marriage.
Some ppl just aren't cut out for marriage. And that's okay too. It just depends on what that person wants in their life, what their goals are, etc. There's nothing wrong with a person if they don't want to commit to someone or get married, it's a personal choice for everyone.
If you have any further questions please feel free to ask.
