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Understanding Pre-ejaculation: What's Normal and What's Not


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Just one more question. Is it normal for me not to secreet this fluid?  
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 I am 26 years old and do not have pre cum. I have masturbated and had sex many, many, times and I don't have any.  I have read lots of info on the importance of it in regards to fertilization and how it helps to lubricate the vagina. My wife said that with her other two partners they had it and it helped to get her lubricated and ready for sex. I'm dry until I have an orgasm and my orgasm and ejaculate is very normal.  I'm circumcised. I talked with my dad and my brother about it and they both have it.  Please help with this. I feel like I'm missing out on something special.  Also, since it comes from the cowperns gland... does this mean I am missing mine.
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you don't have pre-cum  ................   so what.

No, that doesn't have anything to do with lubrication... that is the female's responsibility... if she is stimulated properly and is getting aroused, then any fluid she makes greatly outways any "pre-cum" (As you can see, I don't like that word.)   The vast majority of fluid that lubricates sex is generated from the woman.   That has nothing to do with intimate sexual relations.... so, don't let that deter you from enjoyable sexual relations......................................

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you probably do secrete the fluid, just in very small amounts.... if you were to have your wife stimulate you for a long time, especially if you haven't had sex for a long time, you would see a little bit of the pre-cum.... but, it is only a drop in most men anyways, .... we aren't talking about ounces....