QuestionHello. I understand that you can not actually answer a question for me in this matter. I am just wanting an outside view.
I have been with my husband 10 years next month. I have NEVER worried about him cheating. The only time that is MIGHT have been an issue was in the early years. Only because that is when he was a bit more wild. But I don't even think then, just saying that is when he went to bars with buddies etc.(6+ years ago)
A friend of mine and I were talking (due to the fact that her long term b/f just cheated) and she said she would never think my hubby would cheat on me except maybe with my sister! I was SHOCKED to say the least. (she was reffering to many years back)
You must understand my sister is a slut. She flirts with everyone.
My friend said that is why she said that. Just because the way my sister acted towards my hubby. (which is just how my sister is)
This upset me naturally that my friend (who does no really know my sister) said this.
So I asked my husband who of course said it was ridiculas. I don't talk to my sister as she leads a life style I don't agree with. But of course through out the years she has been around.
Anyway, I would have never thought this on my own. As far as I know they were only alone one time ever. But they did go a ways together. I was still to young to gamble, so they went to a casino with out me. Which was fine, I did not want to have them not go. My sister was from out of town and there was not casinos where she lived and my hubby never had anyone to go with so it seemed like the natural thing.
So my outside opionion question is...... Should I just let this go? Thanks.
AnswerIf your hubby says it didn't happen then you don't have a choice but to let it go. Otherwise you will torment yourself and eventually your hubby to the point of possibly ruining your marriage. The real truth is...it very well could have happened based on what you say.But you can't go back and change it. If hubby is wonderful and you believe he wouldn't cheat on you now...and you love him then I would let it go. I would, however, NEVER let your sister be alone with him again. You may want to keep contact between your family and her very limited. I hope this helped. Debbielee
