QuestionHi, I just have a few questions. Basically what happened was last Thursday I slept with a guy and the condom broke. He did not cum but there was some pre cum, we ended up taking the broken condom off and going with out. I know you can get pregant from pre cum but are the chances that high? I looked at a ovulation calculator and basically what it is says is that my last period started on the 12 of August, and my cycles are 28 days so I would be most fertile from August 23rd to the 28th and this happend on the 27th. I know there is always a chance but because it was so late in those 6 ovlating days and also just pre cum are my chances of getting pregant very small? I wanted to take the morning after pill did not have a car to get to the hospital to do so. Nothing like this has ever happened before this was actually my first time with out protection so I don't know that much about all of this. Any info/advice you can offer would be great. I do understand there is always a chance but I just want to know if it is a small chance because it was only pre cum. Last note, I checked and the condom we used did not have the spermaside sp?
AnswerAll I can say is that a chance is a chance. Statistics are for groups of people, but individuals are either 100% or 0% when it comes to accidents. If I said there is a 50% chance of getting pregnant, you could still either be pregnant or not pregnant. Sex at the time you described is very very likely, in fact that's a perfect time to get pregnant.
My advice is stay away sexually from boys who are not your husband or, at minimum, from any guy you wouln't want to be a husband and/or father of your children. Unless you think an abortion is a walk in the park! Because that is what the morning after pill is: an abortion.
Go and get a pregnancy test as soon as possible so you will know if you are going to be a mother or not. If you are not, then do the right thing next time. Condoms will always break, spermicide will always fail and sex makes babies - Even under the best of circumstances.