QuestionI Had A Medical Abortion And I Got the Depo shot that same day I had sex 5 days later he didn't come inside after I started bleeding a lot after that same day what Are the chances of me Being pregnant
AnswerHi, Estephany,
Although you are asking a question about your body, and nobody can answer questions about your body over the internet, I would say the odds against you being pregnant are fairly small. Is there a reason you suspect pregnancy?
However, I can give you some information that may be vitally important.
First of all, please be aware that if you have sex with someone who has ever slept with anyone else, you have the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease. Abortion won't fix this problem. And some of these are pretty nasty, up to and including HIV. Please respect your body enough not to take such a chance.
You also should be aware that just about every contraceptive method has failures. Condoms in particular are notoriously risky. The methods that use hormones are more reliable, but the hormones they use are very, very powerful. They will totally destroy the delicate hormonal balance in your body, and you could have repercussions for years to come.
There are sometimes failures of the medical abortion. For example, if the two different courses of medicine are not used right, it could leave the pregnancy intact. You should have experienced cramping or outright labor. If you didn't, you may have an incomplete abortion. You should see a doctor (preferably one other than the one who gave you the drugs; get a second opinion.) Watch the bleeding. I don't know how long ago you had the abortion, but excessive bleeding for a long time is sometimes a problem.
Not having him come inside of you also is not foolproof. If there is semen anywhere near the opening, you could become pregnant. The chances are remote, but they're there.
Some people decide to do oral or anal sex instead. Not only does this transmit STD readily to the recipient, but it can also cause cancer.
Abortion is always dangerous. There are no exceptions. They TELL you it's safe. Well, it isn't. Not only can there be immediate complications, which can render you disabled or even kill you, but the chances of dying a violent death in the year following is several times what it would be if you carry to term. Women tend to become careless with their lives, and may resort to drink, drugs, or promiscuity. In addition to all of that, abortion can damage your reproductive organs so that you will be unable to have a normal pregnancy afterward. The baby could be born with a defect, such as cerebral palsy. Or, it could cause you to have breast cancer when you are in your 40's. If you have a history of breast cancer in your family, it is a virtual certainty. About 1/4 of the women die.
Our bodies were designed to protect our babies. That's why abortion is dangerous. They have to harm your body in some way to do one in the first place. Some women think they escaped unharmed. They may find out years later, to their sorrow, that they didn't.
The medical abortion is too new for us to know the full impact of it. But we do know that many women have died or suffered complications. I get questions here almost daily from women who had a medical abortion who are bleeding excessively. I don't have to tell you that this is dangerous.
Whoever you are sleeping with doesn't respect you enough to protect you. If they did, they wouldn't be asking you to take that kind of risk, or even participating if you ask. You deserve someone better.
Please take care of yourself! Don't take those kinds of chances anymore.
