Questionhello,am happy to find ur website i had a one month abortion this august,and between september and october i had unprotected sex.i had my last period on the 18th of september and had safe sex within the first 5days,and even after though iused condom most of the time.btw 3th october and 6th october i have been feeling funny having salaval in my month and eating too much i also feel like going to the toilet frequently,and geting tired easy,i have abdominal contraction and pain jst like my period is coming. i had a pregnacy test and it showed negative.i dont really know wat s happening to my body and i wish i could take a drug before my circle is complete as i dont want to have an aborption again.thnks
AnswerSelamat Datang, Angela,
If you are pregnant, any pill you take would actually BE an abortion. It would be a different kind of abortion, but still an abortion. And all methods of abortion cause harm. Not only that, but I am unaware of any pills that would work at this point anyway. The pills they give out later in pregnancy are very dangerous, and can kill a woman within hours. And they don't always work anyway.
Obviously, if you have sex at all, pregnancy is a possibility. I don't know whether you are married to your partner or not, but if not, your wisest course is to abstain from sex. Condoms don't work.
At this point, if you are pregnant, it was too early for a test to show anything. Try about a week later. Some of your symptoms have nothing to do with pregnancy, and others might indicate pregnancy and they might not.
If you are pregnant again, I recommend you contact an organization that can help you with all of the problems you will face. There is only one in Malaysia, in KL. Here is their address:
Calvary Life Ministries 8 Jalan Damansara Permai Kuala Lumpur 50490 MALAYSIA
I don't have their phone number, but you may be able to get it.
You can also get online or email counseling here: http://www.pregnancycenters.org/
If you are Muslim, you might want to consider going to another country for awhile if you are pregnant.
If you are married, then it is certainly reasonable for you to have sex. If you want to avoid pregnancy, you can learn how to tell when you are fertile (for next time, if you are pregnant now). You have to chart faithfully, and you can't be using hormones. For more information, go here: http://www.fertilityuk.org/ Let me know if you are unable to reach that web site.
Please let me know how things go. I will be here for you, but I won't help you hurt yourself. You have been hurt too much already. You deserve better. Please take care of yourself and stay safe!
