Article: Why He Lost Interest After The Chase
I know some women wonder why a man that has chased them day in
and day out loses interest in them once he think he has them.
Well allow me to let you in on a few things that women do that
causes the chaser to no longer have interest.
If a man chases you, of course it’s going to be a gigantic ego
boost for you and it’s an adrenaline rush to him. He is actually
enjoying the chase. He feel s that each day he chases you is his
lucky day to finally get that phone number or even better, a
date. You are secretly enjoying the chase because you can’t
believe his persistence. He is starting to slightly impress you
and you are even thinking about taking a phone call or two from
him.
So you have agreed to take his calls and you have went out on a
few dates. You find him interesting and realize that he is not a
bad guy after all. You decide that you are going to be intimate.
This is where all communications between the two of you has
gotten twisted and tangled. The chase is now over because you
have allowed your emotions to take over and now you think he is
“your man.” He still wants the chase to continue. You can’t let
your guard down after one intimate session. You have to remain
the feisty woman that you are. You have allowed him to have the
upper hand in this situation and you are left feeling hurt and
confused. And Why? Because he chased you diligently and you felt
you were the best thing to him since red wine. Not so!
You became too serious, too fast. When he calls, you need to be
busy sometimes. Never make yourself available to a man
constantly. If you know that this is a man that you feel can
become something serious in your life, then you need to take all
precautions to ensure you are proceeding carefully. If you want
to keep his interest after the chase, you must remain the woman
he was chasing in the first place!
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