Most of the time pregnant women are afraid to have a little
romance. Probably they are afraid something could happen to
their baby. Well, that’s wrong. It is important that you do not
ignore your own needs or those of your spouse’s during
pregnancy. Unless your doctor has warned you otherwise, it is
generally safe to have intercourse while pregnant. You will not
hurt the baby, nor will your hubby crush it by lying atop you.
You probably have a big belly, and difficult to move your body,
but being loved is something that will not go away from you. You
still want to taste the love from your husband. You can still
initiate a sexy cuddle or some fooling around with your
spouse/partner. Remember, after the baby comes, you will both be
exhausted from 3 a.m. feedings and long days, filled with diaper
changes.
Why do you need to continue having a little romance although
you’re pregnant? You may not feel like being sexual, but it is
at least important to cuddle or fool around with your husband,
so that he still knows he matters to you. You probably will not
have sex as much; over time, this can lead to the relationship
deteriorating. You do not want this to happen, especially when
you can prevent it by remaining attentive to your hubby.
Relationships always take work, but a baby does complicate
things, so make sure you do not quit just because the going gets
tough.
Make the effort now to buy a sexy gown or to do something
romantic for your spouse, and make sure that even after the baby
comes, you make time to remind your hubby that you still love
him and find him attractive. Whether or not you lose the baby
weight right away, still cuddle with your spouse and make love
when you both feel like it. Your husband will not care if you
are a little heavy because he will just be glad you two are
fooling around.
It is also good for your self-esteem to be sexual. And it
releases stress! So, make time for romance, no matter how tired
or fat you feel. Rest assured, your husband still thinks you are
beautiful and sexy.
Never feel ashamed to ask your hubby or partner for little
romance when you need it. Enjoy it while you can!