Unexpected Pregnancy After 11 Months: Seeking Guidance & Options

Question
hi
i m in a very big confusion...please help me to solve my problem...actually my DS is 11 month old and will turn 1 in this april.from last 7 weeks i did not have my periods so i thought may be because of breastfeeding my periods r delayed.but yesterday i went for my check ups and i got to know that i m 7 weeks pregnant.and i do not want to continue my this pregnancy because my first one is still 11 months and i m thinking that i will not be able to take care of him ans also myself during pregnancy.we live in canada and we r only 3.me,my husband and my 11 month old.also one reason for not continuing this pregnancy that we r alone and my all relatives and parents r in india.i asked them so they told me that if i keep this baby,then i will not be able to take care of my first one because he is too young and we r alone here.so it will be very hard for me in delivery and taking care of both children.
  my husband says that he want to keep this baby.i tried to make him understand that it will be hard for me.but he does not want me to abort this baby.
pleas ,help me in this condition.what shoul i do?should i keep this pregnancy or abort this baby?and how do i let my husband understand that i m not ready physically and mentally for this second pregnancy.and how do i terminate second pregnancy?abortion or there r some pills which can help.please reply me as soon as possible.i m going through a very hard condition.i need help.
thanks...
dolly

Answer
There are Abortion pills you can take, however, they can not be used for women over 6 weeks.  There is also adoption.  You can have the baby and give them up for adoption.  You should sit your husband down and go over all of the financial, physical and mental aspects of having another child and make sure he is listening and reading all of the statistics.  I understand where you are coming from.  It would definately be hard for any woman to raise 2 children, both still in diapers.