Understanding Fertility: When to Conceive & Pregnancy Myths

Question
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I am 24 years old and married.I want to know when to have sex for pregnancy.Actually somebody told me that i should have it on 14th day from my mensturation.Is it true.Moreover after our intercourse sperms oozes out from my female part.Is it bcoz of that i am not pregnant.I dont know.Will u plz clear me abt this issue.I am from India

Answer
Your best days to get pregnant are calculated like this:

The fourtenth day after the first day of your last period.  That day is your most fertile day to get pregnant.  What oozes out isn't sperm.  It is the semen.  Sperm live in the semen and swim into your cervix.  semen oozing out is perfectly normal and does not mean you wont get pregnant.