Questionhi i am14 years old.i am having lower abdominal pain intially the pain was also on both left and right side of abdomin no i am having it in my lower abdomin especially when get up from bed.the pain lasts for 5 to 15 minutes although the pain is always mild.some times i also feel lower back pain.my last sexualintercourse was on 4th of February after that i have done 3 blood tests all came negative the last test some 50 days after intercourse.so what can be the problem a pregnancy or some other problem.my urine discharge is as per routine.i would like ur insight into my problem.i,ll be really obliged.and i hope u will not suggest to consult urorolgist or other gyn doc as u too r also trained urologist and expert in pelvic and other problems.
AnswerI can't answer your question over the internet because nobody can. You need to be seen and examined by an ob-gyn doctor. They will tell you whether you are pregnant. Please make arrangements to be seen as soon as possible.
Also, I have to say that you are far too young to be having intercourse. You are far far too young to deal with ANY of the consequences....pregnancy is only one of the things that can happen. Sexually transmitted diseases can effect you the rest of your life. They may even make it impossible for you to have children one day when the time is right. STD's can even kill you.
If you do get pregnant, it will haunt you the rest of your life - whether or not you decide to have an abortion. The women I know who have had an abortion have a lot of strong feelings about it. They spend the rest of their lives wondering whether they did the right thing. They regret it - or at the very least feel very sad about it.
If you have the baby, that will limit your choices in the future. It would change your whole life.
Finally, sex creates strong emotions - usually sex at your age leads to a poor self image and jealosy etc.... it is a bad road to go down.
There is no good reason to have sex at your age. If you keep doing it, you will get pregnant. That's a given. Even if you use birth control, at your age the chances are that you will wind up pregnant. I can't tell you how many young ladies like yourself I have met who would give anything to go back in time and make different choices after it is already too late - and they have become pregnant.
Please consider NOT having intercourse anymore until the right time in your life when you an adult and ready for the consequences.
