QuestionDear Pat,
I am sorry it's me again. I don't know how can i drag so long. In the past two weeks my situation wasn't improved. I still vomited I am still weak and I am looking more terrible each day.
Today there were three friends trying to talk me out of the pregnancy and I had a big argument with my family. In short, can I still undergo the abortion now that I am 10 weeks pregnant? And how shall I best survive it? I know it's against your belief but it seems that I am not ready and I am not as strong as I should be...I probably should consider this option and how to go through it. If you can help me.
AnswerNi hao, BlackCat,
I thought I remembered you were in Hong Kong, but I could be mistaken. I am glad to hear from you again, but sad that you are still suffering.
It may well be that you are too weak to survive an abortion. I don't know. You need to find a decent doctor. The doctor should give you medicine for nausea. You may have to go into the hospital for awhile, so they can give you nourishment that will bypass your stomach.
It doesn't sound like you really want an abortion. But you just don't see how you can go on. Would that be correct?
I can't help you get an abortion. I really can't. It's too harmful. But if you go to a good doctor, preferably someone who doesn't really believe in abortion, he can probably help you with the nausea and vomiting. Normally, it wouldn't go on much past this point anyway. If you are too weak, it could continue. That's why I'm thinking you should really ask the doctor for medication for vomiting. It's not like you are healthy and it is likely you will do reasonably well from an abortion. This is too serious for that. I don't know why the doctor hasn't given you anything for the vomiting.
Please go see a decent doctor right away, and have him give you something for vomiting, and if he thinks it's best, he can put you in the hospital and give you nourishment by intravenous means. Don't talk to your friends right now. Talk only to a good doctor. You need to be free of all this tension and pressure.
Please do this, and let me know how things go. I will be praying for you. Take care.
