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Delayed Period After Unprotected Sex: What To Do?


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QUESTION: hey i am 22. I had my last regular period on 2nd feb. And i had unprotected sex on 8th feb.And i get my period every 28th day. This time its late by 10 days. And i took two pregnancy tests with proper instructions. One test i did on 5th march and the other on 11th march. Both came negative. Now i am worried whether i am pregnant. What should i do? I cant afford to go to a doctor. Please help me....

Sorry that i forgot to mention , I had taken unwanted-72 pill on 8th feb . I had sex on 8th feb around afternoon 2'o clock. And I had taken pill on 8th feb around 10'o clock at night. And the tests are negative. Then why my period is getting delayed???? Are there still chances of getting pregnant?

my period is 11 days late. I haven't got my period...Last regular period was on 2nd feb. I took pregnancy test twice. It came negative. so what should i do now. Can i take some medicines to prepone my period? My avg cycle is of 28 days.

ANSWER: Hello, asmeen,

From the sound of things, I wouldn't assume you are pregnant. When you take pills like you did, it will disrupt your cycle, so it is likely you won't have your period when you are expecting it.

If you do take the pills, you may end up going to the doctor to save your life. The pills are deadly, and they kill women. Women often bleed to death. About 10,000 women die in India, each year, from abortion, mostly from taking those pills. Since you cannot afford to go to a doctor, you cannot afford to take something that could cause you to have to go to a doctor to save your life. Believe me, it will be a lot more expensive!

If you have sex, even protected sex, there is a chance you can GET pregnant in the future. If you are not married, you know it is against society to have sex anyway. If you did become pregnant, you know the social consequences could be serious. You deserve to be respected by your partner; he has a duty to keep you safe and protect you from pregnancy and the fear of pregnancy. You shouldn't be living in fear. If you are married, you are certainly entitled to have a baby.

Because you took pills that probably disrupted your cycle, you will have to be patient with yourself while your body heals from the damage they did to you. Stress can also cause a woman to miss her period. You sound like you were worried sick about the possibility of being pregnant. So I recommend you wait and see what happens. If you are pregnant anyway in spite of all that you have been through, there are people in India who will help you without you having to risk your life or pay for a doctor. Please don't even consider doing anything about it. There are unscrupulous people selling pills that kill women, and you should never, ever buy or use them. So please hang in there, let me know what happens, and stay safe!

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QUESTION: so should i waittill my period come??? since twice my tests came negative, I am confused what to do next. I am not sure whether m pregnant neither i am not.....plz suggest me what to do next...urgent...and thank u so much for answering my previous question...i m waiting for my next answer...plz do help mam...

ANSWER: Hello, asmeen,

Don't do anything. Wait. The only way you should ever do anything that dangerous is under the supervision of a doctor. If you think you are pregnant, do not hurt yourself. No ethical doctor would ever do an abortion on a woman. Abortion is bad medicine. Abortion can kill you and your future children. Self medicating is dangerous, especially with medicines that powerful and poisonous. What most people don't know is that these drugs were developed in the United States, where scientific studies are often falsified, and where evidence regarding how harmful a drug is, is buried. They are manufacturing these dangerous drugs and giving them to patients without their informed consent. The patients don't know the dangers, and they are not told. These same drugs are now being sold in India. That's why so many women are dying there. If you are pregnant, I'll see what kind of resources I can find for you. But please don't hurt yourself.

Thank you very much for the kind rating.

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QUESTION: Its my pleasure to receive an helping hand from u..Mam today i mean 16th march again i did an pregnancy test in morning taking first sample. It again came negative...I think m not pregnant is what i felt...what do u say on this??????  now i wont take much stress... But m just waiting calmly for my periods....m i doing right???? and do u think after getting 3 tests negative i am still pregnant???

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Hello, asmeen,

You are very welcome, and it is my pleasure to be helpful to you.

The fact that you once more have a negative pregnancy test, at what is six weeks, means that the likelihood you are pregnant is very small. Most tests will show pregnancy by now. You should also be experiencing some kind of symptoms. Either the stress you are experiencing, or the pill you took, has interfered with your cycle. Yes, you should be patient. The pills disrupt a woman's periods, so you can't count on having a period when you thought you should. Your body needs to return to its normal state. So just be patient. Please let me know when your period comes, and take care.