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Understanding Early Pregnancy & Safe Options


Question
i think i am 26 days pregnant now. i took a pregnancy test and it was positive. i want to get rid of this baby because im still a student and i cant afford to raise this kid. ive heard that taking Cortal plus cola would cause miscarry and it was effective because it could cause you bleed and have ur period.. but i was afraid to take this  . what is the best thing to do or to take to abort pregnancy.

Answer
Hello, chinita,

Cortal plus cola won't do anything. So there's no need to try it.

Abortion is very, very dangerous. It can kill you, or cause you serious harm. You might also lose interest in your studies. It can have a terrible emotional impact on a woman. Abortion can also harm your future children, and it can make you prone to some serious diseases such as breast cancer. If you have breast cancer in your immediate family, you can count on getting it while you are still young. This is a particularly vicious form of breast cancer, which kills 1/4 of its victims. You deserve better.

You are asking me to help you hurt yourself. I won't do that. And I can't tell you what to do to cause an abortion, because I would be practicing medicine without a license, and could get into a lot of trouble.

Another problem is that the various abortion facilities are hurting women. They often won't meet basic health inspections. The facilities are often filthy, and don't provide an easy way for paramedics to take a woman out if need be. Their abortionists rarely clean their instruments properly, if at all, so a woman can get a sexually transmitted disease there, including HIV. I know of one abortionist who is HIV positive, and the organization responsible for his employment KNEW about it, and let him operate on women anyway. Pills are dangerous and can cause a woman to bleed to death. They're handing them out without doing a medical exam, without getting informed consent, and without telling women what the dangers are. Regularly, women are being butchered and going to the hospital emergency room. Nearly all obstetrician/gynecologists in the United States have attended women with life-threatening injuries after abortion. Pills can also cause an infection that will kill a woman in just hours.

There are organizations all over the United States that help women in your position. You don't even need to have an abortion. These organizations help meet whatever needs you have. You at least deserve to find out what they will offer you. You can find an organization near you by going to this web site:

http://www.optionline.org/

If you are going to college, there may also be resources available through your college or university. Feminists for Life has a program called the College Outreach Program. This persuades universities to offer housing, medical care, and other help. Find out if your college has such a program by visiting their web site:

http://www.feministsforlife.org/

You have a couple of options. You can get help so you can raise your baby, or you can choose adoption. Neither of these choices is easy, but everyone I've talked to (a couple thousand women) who mentioned it said abortion is the WORST choice. It is the MOST difficult. If you choose adoption, you can keep in touch with the family and know how your baby is doing, or even spend time with your baby.

Please keep in mind that your baby already has a heartbeat. This means there are also brain waves, because a heart won't beat without them. If you are counting from the probable date of conception, your baby also already has eyes and fingers.

Please don't even think of having an abortion. I don't want you to get hurt. Please. Please do keep in touch. I will help you solve your problems without you having to commit violence against yourself and your baby. Please let me know what happens, and stay safe!