Irregular Periods & Fertility Concerns: A 27-Year-Old's Situation

Question
hi i am a female age 27 and 167 cm and 52 kg and i have never had a man due to culture reasons from my parents so as you can imagine i do feel down the past 7 months my monthly period has been playing, i get it 1 month and then nothing for 4 months or 3 . i do think a lot and because of tht i dont eat much aswell or excersise a lot could you please tell me because my parents plans are tht im getting married after 9 months, will i be able to have babys ? , is whats happening to me just naturall and because i think a lot and never had sex? will it return normall without me going on medicine or taking injections? could you advice me what to do, what food to eat , what excersise? . i refused to go to the doctors and take anything so please advice me on other things. i belive tht it is normall and it happens from time to time my friend had it and then she had babys no problem please please help me and give me an explaination to what might of happend.?
PS: I STILL HAVE SEXAULL desire aswell.

Answer
Hi,

I know you have cultural reasons but why not go to the doctor? Did you not like the doctor? What about a female doctor instead of a man?

From what you say it sounds like you have irregular periods. I do not think that this has anything to do with sex at all. I do not know if  a doctor would recommend medicine or not for you; you really need to find a doctor you are comfortable with and trust them and allow them to help you.

I am sure once you get to a doctor you will feel much better about things.

As far as eating and exercising, all I can say is do your best; cut out junk food, eat lots of fruit and veggies, whole grains, etc, and as far as exercising, find something you enjoy, and do it! Again, talk to a doctor. Please find one you are comfortable with.

As far as being able to have babies, i do not know the answer to that. All I can say is that the fact you have not had sex has nothing to do with it. you sound like a normal healthy woman with normal thoughts and feelings. The only thing that concerns me (as far  as your ability to have a baby ) is the irregular periods. Only a doctor would be able to help you with that.

good luck, I hope things work out for you!
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