Pregnancy Concerns After Oral Sex - What to Do?

Question
I have a few questions regarding pregnancy. I am worried about an incident
that occured about 5months ago. My boyfriend and I fooled around, we did
not have sexual intercourse but engaged in oral and heavy petting. When his
pants were off mine were on and vice versa. I am worried that his precum
some how soaked through his shorts and he brushed up against them prior
to touching me. There was no penetration via fingers or penis. I am on the pill
and missed one pill 2 days after the incident. I took about 10000 hpt's and all
were negative. Upon reading that some women never test positive on hpts i
had a blood pregnancy test done 4 and 1/2 weeks after that was negative and
another blood test at almost 4 months that also was negative. In the midst of
this I had a pelvic exam at what would be 9wks lmp that revealed a small
uterus and normal cervix. My question is that shouldnt there have been
noticeable changes in my pelvic exam if i was pregnant? is it possible to get
pregnant the way i described and also is it possible to get a flase negative at
4 months on a blood test?

i know its alot... its just a big weight...

thanks

Answer
Dear Christine,

There is virtually no chance of you becoming pregnant in the way you described (no penetration of fingers or penis).

Your pelvic exam would have revealed changes indicating a pregnancy if one existed.

And a blood pregnancy test would have picked up the higher then normal level of hCG at 4 months - for sure.

Please don't stress over this any longer.

I hope this has helped you and answered your questions. Be well!

Brenda