QuestionHello,
My wife is Japanese and I am Caucasian. She is 153cm tall, which means the rest of her body goes on proportionally. I am 183cm and my endowment is considerably above average for a Caucasian man. Before she got pregnant, this was not much of a worry except for needing to be a little cautious and gentle. I can easily hit her uterus during inter-course. If we go too hard her organs will hurt after wards (but not during because the pain is numbed out).
Now that she entered her second phase of pregnancy, she is really horny and so am I. Although we are both scared for the child. Could having sex have an impact on our child? Like if it a boy giving it a higher chance to be gay, or if its a girl maybe she'll have incestuous tendencies?
As a future parent I'm trying to figure out what things have an impact on the mind development of children. I do not believe in God or souls or anything like that. I believe the development of a child is purely based on what the child physically, emotionally and mentally experiences throughout its existence. As one matures, the experience becomes more conscious but as a child many things could influence it subconsciously.
I will of course be careful to not go to far during intercourse...
Thanks for your time, I'm not sure if I posted in the right section.
-Rodrigue
AnswerDear Rodrigue,
The fetus is completely oblivious to what is going on beyond the inner sanctum of the womb. He/she has absolutely no idea that his/her mother is having sex or what that means. The most that may be felt is a little more jostling around, which can also be felt when the mother is doing aerobics or on a jog.
Obviously, if there is discomfort the following day and always has been, extra care must be taken because of physical differences. But as for the mental development of the child - no worries.
I hope this has helped you and answered your question. I wish you well.
Brenda
