QuestionOkay my mom made me qet a abortion on jan 29 2009 my period came on feb 1 2009 and went off feb 5 okay . me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he nutted in me on feb 13 14 and 15 2009 . Well my period was suppose to come on feb 28 2009 and it didn't well now my period it 4 days late and my boyfriend really think I am pregnant but I want my baby and I don't want to qet a abortion but im only 15 but by the time I have the baby I well be 16 . Do yu think im pregnant ??
AnswerHi Catty dear,
You obviously wanted to become pregnant again as an reaction on your
"forced" abortion. A sort of protest ? Punnish your mother ? Is not that in fact very un grown-up behaviour ?
Parents normally have a better possibility to judge about such thinks as youngsters. Its very easy to have sex, No reason to be proud about that. Every girl can have sex; but what about raising a baby? What about your education? What about your bf. Is he going to pay for you and the baby? What's his age ?
How will you take are of the baby ? Its no doll nor a pet. Where will you stay, who will pay for the baby ? What about the care for the baby. Your youth is over. No more time for partying or staying out late. Baby will need you all the time, also at night. You like changing diapers ? Are you going to breastfeed ?
Many questions to answer.
If you want to be sure about your pregnancy, you'd better buy a pregtest. Try to get ideas about your responsibilities. You will have to care for your baby many years.
Discuss this with people who care about you. And listen to them !
Take care of yourself. Take better care of yourself.
Bye for now !
Dr Shan.
