Trying to Conceive After Abortion: Emotional Healing & Fertility Tips

Question
Hi,
I am 29 years old woman from India. Gone through a surgical abortion on last year May.Still I cannot come up with the grief. I feel severely uncomfortable if I see any picture of a child, even in advertisement,hear some news of any delivery, unconfortable to meet the persons who know about my abortion. Now I am thinking to get pregnant for last two months. But failed. My assumption is we are not doing it on my fertile dates. When I got pregnant we did it on my 8th day of the menstrual cycle ( 28 days). We have tried on 10th day, 11th day and 5th day for last two months. Some how did not tried on 8th day.I fear that I have lost my fertility. I am being scolded whenever I have consulted any doctor for any reason for aborting the first issue, and everybody told that first issue abortion can make oneself infertile.Now I fear to consult any sort of doctor here. For last two months I am having period on 26th day, whereas it was on exsactly 28th day, am I going through any hormonal disorder? Am I be able to pregnant further? The fear is very engulfing at times.
Can you please help?
Thank you very much to listen to me.

Answer
You need to relax.  Your cycle changed which is normal after pregnancy.  You should be having sex sevearl times a week in order to get pregnant.  

This info may help you
1.  An ovulation calculator
http://www.marchofdimes.com/ovulation_calendar.html