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Understanding Professional Boundaries During Massage Therapy


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Hi Kathryn--I hope all is well with you and your family.  I wanted to share this with you.  I told you about my most embarrassing moment--ejaculating during a massage a couple of years ago and how the female therapist protected me from her female co-workers by not letting me leave until they were out of sight.  She did not want them to see my wet spot.  She could see that I was blushing in embarrassment.  I was apologizing profusely to her.  She walked me to my car.  She was so loving and sweet.  She has become my dear friend.  I have had many great massages from her lately.  She understands my trigger areas--inner thighs, buttocks, and nipples.  She is very careful to not "tickle" those areas.  She always walks me to my car afterward.  I am so touched by her compassion for a man.  I thank her every time I see her.  Women sometimes get swept off their feet by a man.  In this case, a woman has swept me off of my feet.  She is a loving, caring, sensitive woman.  I thought I'd let you know.  Thank you so much, Kathryn.  Larry.  P. S.--During my massages, I wear my very soft, short silky nylon running shorts.  My wet spot was very noticeable.  She protected me.  She has a friend for life in me.

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Hi Larry,

Oh, that's great you are having wonderful massages and have found a great therapist!

She is even nicer than I am.  :)  I walk clients to the door and watch to make sure they get into their cars without problems but don't often walk to their car.

Compassionate people rule!  :)

Take care,

Kathryn