Navigating Marital Conflict: Should You Stay or Go?

Question
My husband and I have been fighting a lot and it seems like we are heading for a divorce. How can I know if that is the right thing/

Answer
Hi Brandy,

Thanks for writing. I know you are going through a hard time in your marriage and I feel badly for you. The question you ask is so complicated that books have been written about it. In the end it will be your decision, but you want it ti be a wise one. I suggest you read the book, "Too good to Leave, Too bad to Stay." It is really helpful in walking you through the steps of knowing when a marriage can be saved or not. You can read some highlights from it at the following link:  http://divorcesource.wordpress.com/2008/02/01/too-good-to-leave-too-bad-to-stay/

I hope this helps.

Doctor Becky