STD Risk & Pap Smear Concerns: Seeking Information

Question
Hello! This is a receipt for a question you recently asked at allexperts.com, in category Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Most of our questions were answered in 3 days. Thanks for using our service!  Your question was "I am a 45 years old man who before 1990 fucked more than 150 different prostitutes without protection, and it was normal in brothels because here in Venezuela prostitutes just get your penis "inspection" as if they were doctors. 3 months ago my wife get the papanicolau test and the doctor told her that she had VPH PHV (papiloma) and needed to cauterized the warts. Now I ask you:That means that I am not going to make her love again without protection?That is mean that he betrayed me with other man?How is it possible that she had 18 years getting her papanicolau test every year and they were negative?I took a test with a frotis of my penis and it was negative in high risk virus and low risk virus (just certain types)Could I transmit the virus to her after 20 years married?Since I got married I have been with prostitutes but using protection.Why I me do not have warts?To be honest I do not know what to think, I even have been thinking about to get divorced but I have two small children.Please help.Yours Albar"

Answer
Albar,

You are at a great risk if you had sex with 150 prostitutes. I don't think it is possible that of the 150 women, none had a disease. In my opinion, you had a sexually transmitted disease from the women you had sex with. Now you  must have transmitted to your wife. I don't think it is good or wise that you have been having sex and been unfaithful to your wife. I don't think that she got the disease from anyone else. My opinion is that you gave the disease to her.

In my opinion, there is no 100% protection in sex. You can have a sexually transmitted disease and not have any symptoms and then give to your wife. Then she developed the symptoms. You must go to a doctor and get diagnosed. You must see if you are the reason. Do not get divorced. You must find out what is the cause of all of this. Please get help and medical diagnosis and treatment.

Diane W.