Understanding Consent and Exploitation in Teen Relationships

Question
i'm 17 years old and i'm a girl and i'm in grade 12. since about a month ago, i've been letting boys at my school borrow my used panties for money. i know that sounds kind of weird, but i started doing it after a boy told me that he would pay just to borrow my used panties. so, since then, i've been lettings boys at my school borrow my used panties for a day for a dollar. i've actually made a lot of money from it! of course, i'd never have sex for money but i'm okay with perverted boys borrowing my used panties because, well... all i'm doing is letting them borrow my used panties. my boyfriend's okay with it and all of my friends have told me that it's a good idea and some of them have been letting boys borrow their used panties, too. however, i told my mom about it and she wants me to stop! she told me that she has no problem with it on a moral level and she understands that it's nothing like prostitution but she told me that she wants me to stop because she thinks that cum stains can't be fully washed out of panties. in case you don't know what i mean, i'll tell you. i'm pretty sure that all the boys that borrow my used panties turn them inside out and sniff them (i know because my boyfriend told me that boys would do that). and i'm pretty sure that there's some boys who ejaculate their cum in my used panties and masturbate with them. after i get my used panties back the next day, i always wash them thorougly but my mom thinks that cum stains can't be completely washed out. so, she thinks that i can get pregnant by wearing the used panties that i let boys borrow. my mom now told me that i'm not allowed to wear those used panties (even after washing them) and that i'm not allowed to let boys borrow my used panties anymore! is my mom right or wrong? i'm pretty sure that she doesn't know what she's talking about because i've washed a couple of cum-stained used panties that i let boys borrow and i'm pretty sure that i got all the cum out of them. unfortunately, i also got some cum on my hands a couple of times, which is gross! lol! anyways, can cum be completely washed out of panties? please tell me that it can because my mom won't let me wear some of my panties or let boys borrow them for money until i can prove to her that it can!

Answer
Hi Chelsea,
It is pretty weird isn't it.  I'm sure you could never get pregnant or an STD from wearing your panties after they've been well-laundered.  I'd probably do the laundry in hot water to be doubly sure.  There could still be some cum stains on the panties, but nothing that you could catch.  However I think it's important that you respect your mom's feelings on this.  It's good that you can talk to her openly about sex.