Question29 I have chrohnes & other health issues never been pregnant just found out last week afraid meds as well as not planned for baby will not be ok very expensive & discuraging visit yesterday to planned parenthood I will not have a baby with use of drugs that have all warning not to! myself being sick on disability have 3 dogs credit problems no dl or transportation for my own health issues and as well as could not give a human I made most likly deformed to another. I AM SOOOOOO AFRAID OF SO MUCH please help this sufferer of denil and recovering procrastionation
Answerbrooke,
Wow!
If you have so many health problems, please know that abortion would be far more dangerous for you than for the average person, and for her, it's bad enough.
You need to know what your options are. You need to know what help is available. It sounds like a real challenge, but I don't think it would be impossible. As for whatever drugs you are taking, it is true that sometimes these drugs cause damage. That said, you are almost certainly aware that pharmaceutical houses do everything they can to avoid being sued for such damage, so they post every possible negative scenario they can, so that nobody could say they weren't told. Does that mean that your baby is likely to be born without problems? Yes! Does it rule out the possibility of damage? No. But please know that there are people out there who are willing, eager, and able to adopt a child with problems, and love that child. For them, also, there are many resources available.
Planned Parenthood will try to talk you into an abortion by exaggerating your problems. They make money if you choose abortion. They won't be objective.
If you choose adoption, your expenses will be paid by the adoptive parents.
Please find out all you can about your options before making a decision. Find out everything you can about your baby and about abortion and what it does to a baby. The more you know, the happier you will be with your decision, whatever it is. Don't make a decision while you are feeling panic. People don't make good decisions when they are feeling panic. You have time.
Please go here and find a crisis pregnancy agency near you:
http://pregnancycenters.org/
Go and talk to them. Let them explain what they can offer by way of help, what your options are. Let them put you in touch with a doctor who can handle your problems and still treat your baby as his other patient.
There may well be some natural remedies for your health problems. In the meantime, there are some things you can do that may help considerably. I recommend you stop drinking or eating anything with artificial sweeteners, and anything with monosodium glutimate. More often than not, these health conditions are nothing more than poisoning by some of these things. Try this, and let me know what happens. If you want to talk about natural remedies, I am willing to do some research for you.
Please don't hurt yourself. You already have too many problems to add to them. Abortion could kill you or cause serious damage, and you don't need that on top of everything else.
I will say a prayer for you.
PS I did a little research on Crohns Disease. I have a suggestion: raw cabbage juice. I know people for whom this has been extremely effective. No guarantees, but no risks, either as far as I know. I'll see what else I can find out.
