QuestionHow do I overcome jealousy of my husbands visual stimulation of other women? My husband and I have a relationship that only other people could dream of but when it comes to the bedroom lately after 3 years of marriage, I can't help to feel that he only wants to have sex with me after interacting with a beautiful women that day or a naked girl on tv he was interested in. I think this stems from knowing that men and women are wired different. Females are emotional and tie the relationship and sex together with emotions but males separate things in their brains. Sex is different than emotions and a relationship. So I feel like I'm just there to meet a need for whatever reason he may be stimulated. I don't know how to stop thinking like this and it's killing my relationship. Why do men marry, if they lust for every attractive female in their environment? Can love mean the same thing to them as it does to a women? When men climb into bed with their mate and initiate sex is it because of sexual stimulation elsewhere and that's about all it means?
Answer Why do men marry, if they lust for every attractive female in their environment?
--- It's fantasy, it varies from person to person.
Can love mean the same thing to them as it does to a women?
=== Sometimes NO, It's a different breed. Emotions are different than sex for some men, as you said in your question.
When men climb into bed with their mate and initiate sex is it because of sexual stimulation elsewhere and that's about all it means?
=== If stimulation was initiated elsewhere where will he go to satisfy his needs ? to you , if he loves you.
Best way to handle will be talk to him and explain to him how do you feel before having sex while he is watching other females. he will be in good mood an don't offend or criticize, just talk to him in casual seductive conversation, how do you feel when he is watching other females.
Once he realizes he is crossing line wit you , he will stop if he cares.
