Navigating Difficult Decisions: Addressing Miscarriage and Honesty

Question
How in the world as an "expert" can you say that lying is okay...Miscarriage occurs to so many couples that wish to unselfishly have children and many that have fought infertility obstacles. Abortion is a choice and having one and telling people you miscarried is sick, if you dont want people in your buisness fine just lie and get sympathy. PATHETIC. If you cant be true to oneself then youre living a lie and are a sick liar.

Answer
No, you're the one who is pathetic. How dare you write to me in such a way, and you are lucky I am even taking time to answer your silly and rude diatribe. It is no one's goddamned business that a woman aborts-and guess what? AN ABORTION IS AN INDUCED MISCARRIAGE. You know what the medical term for a miscarriage is? A spontaneous abortion. It'd be nice if you could get your facts straight before going on a rant that makes no sense.

If you ever speak to me in this way again I will be contacting the administrators about your behavior. Why don't you go and chat with some anti-choice people who think women are vessels-not human beings, vessels, and for some unknown reason owe the world a fetus. And by the way-I can easily say having a child is the selfish thing-bringing a being into this world that doesn't have a say? Real selfless.