QuestionI missed my period this month then i tasted my urine..it comes postive beside i also did blood taste for confirm ..this taste name B-hCG its results shown 3558.82 mIU/ml..my last period was finished 08th april..then i had unprotected sex with my husband..now my questiion is there any possible to avoid surgical aboration..i mean is there any pill which may work now..??..by the way i did surgical aboration 8 months before..so is it safe to do again surgical aboration now ??
AnswerHello, Cindee,
If you don't want to have a surgical abortion, don't have one!
It wasn't safe to have the first abortion. You may experience long term problems. For example, you may be particularly prone to breast cancer. If you aborted your first child and you have a history of breast cancer in your family, it is a virtual certainty. For another, it can interfere with your ability to have a normal pregnancy in the future. Among other things, it can cause a very early birth, and that is a leading cause of cerebral palsy. That's why you should tell your doctor about your abortion, so he can give you treatment to protect you. So having a repeat abortion is a bad idea, no matter how it is done.
You're married. Is there any reason why you feel you shouldn't have children?
I'm not going to recommend a pill. That would be practicing medicine without a license, and I could get into a lot of trouble. And I'm also not going to help you hurt yourself. I get a lot of questions from women who are bleeding uncontrollably after taking pills. One of the pills given is being given off label. That's because it can kill a woman. It's not supposed to be given to pregnant women at all. It can cause rupture of the uterus and toxic shock syndrome, both of which can kill within hours. In my opinion, any doctor who gives it is committing malpractice!
If your husband is pressuring you, stand up to him. It may not be easy, but if you are firm in your decision, eventually he will stop pressuring you. If he threatens to harm you in any way, don't just accept that. Do something about it.
Let me know if there is any other way I can help you. You can find resources. There is a center in Dhaka that will help you:
Community Health & NFP Centre Phone 880/2 803217 . If you don't live near Dhaka, ask them to recommend someone locally.
Please don't hurt yourself. It's not worth it. If you feel you can't raise a child, there are people out there who will gladly do it. Let me know if you have any further questions.
