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Is She The Right Life Partner? Assessing Compatibility After 16 Months


Question
Hello....,

I and my Girld are together for 16 months together. We love each other, i care for her, she does also. we are becoming seriously,  abt our futur, abt our weeding.

In short i think we are perfect,small issues might happen but we try to solve on time.She respect my interest, i do also.

As for meeting each other, we almost see each other EVERYDAY for an hour or more. she live with her parent,i give her a ride every day. We mostly spend time for each other than to our freinds.

Usually we stay together at night. Abt the calls, we call each other 3 or 4 times a day, we have the habit to update thing each other. So i think we are in right track...

So my worried is, is it the time to marry her once we are financially stabled? i mean she got a job, i do also, we can hve a rent... we need lil money only.

We are planning for the big day in few months like in  10 months.
Just as a PLAN, just to wish good one.
IS SHE THE RIGHT GIRL FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE ?

Thank u !!

Answer
Love is blind. Do not begin a lifetime relationship based on doubt. I suggest that each of you embark on a path of self-awareness to understand your childhood experiences affecting adult life and relationships with self and others. The goal is to live intentionally rather than being swept along by the unconscious tendency to repeat old unhealthy patterns. If you do not do this, you run the risk of having an unhealthy marriage. For a reader friendly source see http://www.amazon.com/Effective-Counseling-Skills-therapeutic-statements/dp/1442...

You may also want to complete the questionnaire found at http://www.thecounsellors.com