Navigating a Difficult Engagement: Seeking Relationship Advice

Question
my relationship with my fiancee is not too good.its been 14yrs.i have time that i want to leave but sometimes i cant.not because he is treatning me.he is not a bad person but every month we urgue.im tired of this.any suggestion

Answer
mae;

well,why are you still not married,is there a reason?

abuse can include battering and physical assault,sexual assault and psychological abuse,in which you may be verbally forced into doing degrading or humiliating things.

see i dont know if you are or not being abused. or you think your not,but you are.
i have been there,with abuse,and its not pretty.

heres a few things to think about;

signs of impending danger
you may be in danger if any of the following are true;
-your partner talks about using or has access to a weapon,especially a gun
-your partner extends the threats to children,other family members or pets
-if yelling and threats go on and on

you have to safe,some women do even know there being abused,they thinks its how it should be,but its not.

maybe you need to leave him for awhile,and see what you want in life.....

catherine;