Some girls love it! They might find it comforting, playful, or even romantic. They might like the feeling of someone running their fingers through their hair, or a gentle head massage.
However, other girls really dislike it. They might be particular about their hairstyle and not want it messed up. They might have sensory sensitivities that make it uncomfortable. Or they might simply not like the feeling of someone touching their hair.
The best way to know is to pay attention to her cues and, when in doubt, ask!
Here are some things to consider:
* Your relationship with her: If you're close friends or in a romantic relationship, she might be more comfortable with it than if you're just acquaintances.
* The context: Is she relaxed and comfortable, or stressed and preoccupied?
* Her body language: Does she lean into the touch, or pull away? Does she seem relaxed or tense?
* Communicate! A simple "Do you mind if I play with your hair?" can go a long way.
If she seems uncomfortable at all, respect her boundaries and stop.